Sosseh Didarloo

a person with long black hair smiling in front of trees

Lecturer in the Department of Child and Family Studies

Escaping Discrimination

Growing up in post-revolutionary Iran as an Iranian Armenian woman, I faced multiple forms of discrimination due to the intersectionality of my identities within a patriarchal society. Like many other women, I was not allowed to reveal a strand of hair without the risk of harassment or arrest. Furthermore, I was explicitly informed about limitations on my college major options because certain fields were exclusively designated for men. In light of these injustices and the political turmoil in the country, I made the choice to abandon my familiar home and start a new one in the United States.

Adapting to a New Country

Immigrating to a new country presented numerous challenges. Adapting to the norms and values of U.S. culture, which were entirely unfamiliar to me, was a prolonged process. Additionally, due to my father's inability to secure his immigration papers, I was separated from him for many challenging years, shouldering the financial burden of living in a new country mostly on my own.

Pursuing Higher Education

However, through my unrelenting work ethic, I found my voice and followed my dream of pursuing higher education. originally aiming to become an early childhood educator, I pursued my educational journey, attaining Associate's, Bachelor's, and Master's degrees in Child Development; subsequently commencing my career as a preschool teacher. However, as I immersed myself in the field of education, I became acutely aware of the institutional and systemic barriers that cast shadows over the educational landscape, disproportionately affecting historically marginalized communities. This awareness fueled my determination to pursue an advanced education, ultimately leading me to embark on the journey toward a Doctorate in Educational Leadership. Today, as a first-generation college graduate, I hold the position of a lecturer at Cal State LA. In this role, I have the privilege of mentoring first-generation and immigrant students from diverse ethnic backgrounds, guiding them in their pursuit of higher education, and empowering them to harness their education for cognitive and financial liberation. As Nelson Mandela once said, "Education is the most powerful weapon which you can use to change the world"- and I want my students to do exactly that.

Advice to First-Gen Students

As a first-generation college graduate, my advice is simple: believe in your abilities, persevere through challenges, and seek support when needed. Balance your academics with self-care, manage finances wisely, and embrace your cultural identity. Use education to empower yourself and make a positive impact. Set clear, achievable goals, and remember, sharing your experiences can inspire others. Success is within reach with dedication and self-belief.